Remove deprecated build hacks. Includes move to CCE18 (Frontier)

[henryleberre]

• Removed CCE 16 workgroup hacks.
• Removed AppleClang workarounds on macOS, including building MPI from scratch.
• Only build FFTW and SILO packages if they are not installed/compatible (HDF5 not currently possible).
• Removed Docker (nobody uses it, and maintaining it is cumbersome).
• Switched to using the proper Silo patch for an error on GNU 13 and above. See my comment here: Silo does not compile with gcc 14 LLNL/Silo#375 (comment).
• Removed installation instructions for Arch Linux. They installed their operating system, I'm sure they can install gcc.

Note from @sbryngelson: After this PR, use of <CCE18.0.0 will not be possible. Revert to previous release for use of CCE16.0.1 on Frontier/Tioga/El Capitan.

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[sbryngelson]

Will merge once Phoenix is back up.