Add ByteString ToReadOnlySpan

[fmg-lydonchandra]

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Add ByteString ToReadOnlySpan, which has NO memory copy, compared to ToArray(), when ByteString is compact.

Why?

Currently we do a lot of RabbitMQ IncomingMessage Deserialization by calling ToArray() (which does memory copying)

        var evt = JsonSerializer.Deserialize<T>(message.Message.Bytes.ToArray(), SerializerOptions);

Using ToReadOnlySpan, memory copy can be avoided, as most of our IncomingMessage is compact

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[fmg-lydonchandra]

Hi, is this change worth having? if so, will add tests.

[Aaronontheweb]

Hi, is this change worth having? if so, will add tests.

LGTM - please add some tests