fix: sleep menu no longer complains about deafness when using infolink alarm

[chaosvolt]

Purpose of change (The Why)

Fixes a lil oddity Bardcore spotted in the BN discord.

Describe the solution (The How)

In handle_action.cpp, set the alarm query in sleep() to only remind you you're deaf if you don't have the infolink CBM as an alarm source.

Describe alternatives you've considered

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Testing

1. Compiled and load-tested.
2. Spawned in as a bionic boffin.
3. Confirmed that putting earplugs in no longer warns me about being deaf when setting an alarm, due to having infolink CBM.
4. Added a wrist watch, confirmed that doesn't change the UI so long as I still have an infolink.
5. Retested as a normal survivor, confirmed I'm warned about deafness if I have earplugs in but not if I can hear.

Additional context

Oddly, the alarm option in the wait menu doesn't even bother telling you whether you're deaf or not:

This seems to be because the wait() function calls a function called try_set_alarm() that has its own menu panel and neither of those functions check for deafness, while the sleep version is its own whole other thing.

Checklist

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