Consistent context menus

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1. Making the Quick Component Picker and Full Component Picker (the one behind MORE...) visually consistent (spacing, gaps, highlights, etc). TABLESS . The background colors are slightly different so that it still contrasts with the default bg color in dark theme.
2. Making the Data Picker visually consistent with those two (same box shadow, same dark bg, same blue highlight, same icon - label spacing
3. Making the context menu styling visually consistent with those two (padding, box shadow, row spacing etc)
4. Using tabs in the Data Picker instead of the popup menu because the popup menu is theme-aware, and the context menu should not be - so there was no simple way to edit the style of the popup menu without changing it in the whole app. If we don't want to show these filter options at all yet we can get rid of these tabs entirely.

Fixes #[5459]

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Light:

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#12258 Bundle Size — 62.48MiB (~-0.01%).

ef8a994(current) vs 6339ece master#12256(baseline)

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Bundle metrics   2 changes 1 improvement

	Current #12258	Baseline #12256
Initial JS	45.55MiB(-0.01%)	45.56MiB
Initial CSS	0B	0B
Cache Invalidation	21.76%	21.06%
Chunks	31	31
Assets	34	34
Modules	4377	4377
Duplicate Modules	504	504
Duplicate Code	30.81%	30.81%
Packages	468	468
Duplicate Packages	58	58

Bundle size by type   2 changes 2 improvements

	Current #12258	Baseline #12256
JS	62.47MiB (~-0.01%)	62.47MiB
HTML	10.94KiB (-0.34%)	10.98KiB

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