try newer versions of drupal/civi in tests

[jackrabbithanna]

Overview

Test 10.4, Civi 5.81
11.1 civi master branch
PHP 8.3 / 8.4

[jackrabbithanna]

This PR to civicrm core broke tests badly: civicrm/civicrm-core#31046
Kernel tests now fail when tried when CiviCRM Core is 5.78 or above

This file adds an event listener https://github.com/civicrm/civicrm-core/blob/master/setup/plugins/installDatabase/SyncUsers.civi-setup.php
and runs the synchonizeusers() method.
But in the Kernel tests, the Drupal modules are not installed yet when CiviCRM is setup.

This will require major rework of setup() in Kernel tests, and it may not be possible actually.
We may delete them, or possibly invest in converting them to FunctionalJavascript tests.

I have no idea why synchronizeUsers() needs to be called on setup, as there are no contacts yet on install. Boooo

[jackrabbithanna]

Closing in favor of #510 after several other test updates in other PRs