ARROW-190 Update to match PyMongo configuration settings #867

Job	Run time
Build wheel for cp38-manylinux_x86_64	1m 25s
Build wheel for cp39-manylinux_x86_64	1m 34s
Make SDist	2m 58s
Build wheel for cp310-manylinux_x86_64	1m 27s
Build wheel for cp311-manylinux_x86_64	1m 29s
Build wheel for cp38-manylinux_aarch64	3m 59s
Build wheel for cp39-manylinux_aarch64	3m 59s
Build wheel for cp310-manylinux_aarch64	4m 1s
Build wheel for cp311-manylinux_aarch64	4m 0s
Build wheel for cp38-macosx_*	3m 44s
Build wheel for cp39-macosx_*	3m 57s
Build wheel for cp310-macosx_*	3m 55s
Build wheel for cp311-macosx_*	3m 56s
Build wheel for cp38-win_amd64	3m 53s
Build wheel for cp39-win_amd64	3m 20s
Build wheel for cp310-win_amd64	3m 55s
Build wheel for cp311-win_amd64	3m 53s
Download Wheels	1s
	55m 26s

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