MONGOID-5825 Do not update timestamp on destroyed (#5939) #3910

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	1m 9s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	1m 5s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 replica_set	1m 10s
ruby-3.1 driver-master mongodb-6.0 replica_set	1m 7s
ruby-3.0 driver-stable mongodb-6.0 replica_set	1m 14s
ruby-3.3 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	1m 1s
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	58s
ruby-3.2 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	59s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-7.0 server	59s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	53s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	1m 5s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	54s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	1m 22s
jruby-9.3 driver-current mongodb-6.0 server	1m 44s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	1m 9s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.4 replica_set	1m 24s
	18m 13s

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