add tests for when user defined types throw - fix c style arrays support #1653

Job	Run time
msvc (windows-2022, x64, Debug, 17, ON)	7m 46s
msvc (windows-2022, x64, Debug, 20, ON)	10m 50s
msvc (windows-2022, x64, Release, 17, ON)	14m 32s
msvc (windows-2022, x64, Release, 20, ON)	14m 41s
mingw (mingw64, Release, 17, ON)	16m 19s
msvc (windows-2022, x64, Release, 17, OFF, -DQUILL_NO_EXCEPTIONS=ON -DQUILL_BUILD_TESTS=ON)	3m 43s
mingw (ucrt64, Release, 17, ON)	17m 6s
msvc (windows-2022, ARM64, Release, 17, OFF)	4m 48s
	1h 29m 45s

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