[GR-52676] Use Panama for upcalls #4610

Job	Run time
build jvm	6m 18s
lint	13m 10s
build native	13m 17s
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.0	3m 27s
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.1	3m 32s
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.2	2m 57s
test integration	38s
specs :truffle	22s
fast specs	17s
specs :language :core	18s
specs :library :cext :security :command_line :tracepoint	17s
run MRI tests on native	14m 33s
test native	3m 35s
	1h 2m 41s

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