feat: tunnel and proxy use dev mode always

[aeneasr]

The --dev flag essentially enabled wildcard cors. To make development easier, the flag has been removed and instead we will check if the user supplied specific CORS origins. If they did not, wildcard CORS is enabled.

The Ory Proxy and Ory Tunnel are only supposed to be used during development, so adding a flag --dev seemed pointless.

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