Use builder pattern for IcebergQueryRunner

[ZacBlanco]

Description

Currently we create IcebergQueryRunner through a complicated set of method with various overloads. We tend to just create a new constructor/method for every time we need to set a separate property which can make figuring out
the arguments you're trying to explicitly change for a query runner more difficult to determine.

This change instead introduces a class which uses builder pattern to make the code easier to understand.

Motivation and Context

Simpler and easier to understand query runner.

Impact

N/A. Testing only

Test Plan

Existing tests

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