*: don't handle live updates of column size (#58596)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #58596

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #58595

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Just as the issue said. We dropped the maintenance of the column size updates during various DML statements.

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Tests

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[Rustin170506]

merged in #59150